@ tina : Try to talk to him about his actions towards you, explain to him the things he has done. After tell him that you have been hurt and possibly stay away from him.

@ san : Talk to him yeah right that doesn't work it's a joke! Got a father here myself who do s except change, disregards everything I say thinks it's his way or the highway. What is sad is he was never there for any of his 8 kids and like a fool I'm the second to the youngest who gave this bastard a chance thinking he could be a dad that I never had but he's just a plain alcoholic who is mean selfish, disrespectful, and rude. It's like the older they get the worser they are in my case. So reasoning or talking to a parent is a bunch a "bull"! My advice is figure it out find away to get that person out of your life and home or it well bring you down and everyone around you believe me I'm in the same process myself and I can't even get the authorities here to stop bringing him back to my home so I guess I need a legal retraining order on my own dad an that's sad! We all make mistakes but we learn from it so get rid of the parasite before it demolish your life!